The $125 Nobody Claims — Setting a Federal Headstone
The federal government supplies a headstone or marker free. It does not pay to have it set, and in a private cemetery that is a bill the family pays. The state reimburses up to $125 towards the setting — a small payment against a cost families never see coming.
Verified August 23, 2026
What this benefit is
The federal government supplies a headstone or marker free. It does not pay to have it set, and in a private cemetery that is a bill the family pays. The state reimburses up to $125 towards the setting — a small payment against a cost families never see coming.
What it's worth: Up to $125 reimbursed towards the cost of setting a federally furnished headstone or grave marker
- The department states the reimbursement as up to $125 for the setting of a federally furnished headstone or marker.
- The reimbursement is for the setting, not for the stone — the stone itself comes from the federal department at no charge.
- The department also maintains a roll of honour recording veterans buried in the state, and county veterans assistance commissions provide burial assistance for indigent veterans and their immediate families.
Who is entitled to it
- Your discharge characterisation is within the usual range for state veteran programmes.
- You are in this state.
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How to claim it
- 1Order the federal headstone or marker first. It is supplied free, and this state payment only exists to cover the setting of one that has been supplied.
- 2Get the setting invoice from the cemetery in the family's name. This is a reimbursement, so the paperwork is the claim.
- 3Ask the cemetery for the setting charge in advance rather than after the fact. Private cemeteries vary widely and $125 covers rather more of a modest charge than of an elaborate one.
- 4File through a veteran service officer. It is a small claim and they will have filed dozens; a family filing alone usually files late.
- 5If the estate cannot meet the funeral costs at all, ask the county veterans assistance commission about burial assistance for indigent veterans — a separate and larger route that the department names alongside this one.
- 6Ask the department to add the burial to the state roll of honour while you are in contact. It costs nothing and it is the record that outlives the paperwork.
- Form
- Reimbursement claim to the state Department of Veterans' Affairs, with the setting invoice
- File with
- The state Department of Veterans' Affairs, usually through a veteran service officer
- Documents you will need
- dd214
- No renewal
- Once granted it does not need renewing.
Sources
- authority · published policyDepartment of Veterans' Affairs — Survivor and Burial Benefits, headstone or grave marker reimbursement
- operating · published policyDepartment of Veterans' Affairs — services and benefits index
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